چې خوله یې خوږه وي، خلک یې ډېر وي

Che khwla ye khwaga wi, khalak ye der wi

Literal translation

The one whose speech is sweet has many people around them.

Contextual meaning

What it means

Kind and respectful speech attracts goodwill. The way a person speaks can build community more effectively than status or force.

When people use it

In everyday life

Used when teaching a child, colleague, or leader that courtesy will take them farther than harshness.

Editorial record

Source and status

Source
Traditional Pashto saying; printed source not yet documented.